
Detachment
Loneliness, reserve, pride
For those who in health or illness like to be alone. Very quiet people, who move about without noise, speak little, and then gently. Very independent, capable and self-reliant. Almost free of the opinions of others. They are aloof, leave people alone and go their own way. Often clever and talented. Their peace and calmness is a blessing to those around them.
Water Violet reflects isolation that keeps a proud or private distance. A person may seem self-contained, while closeness feels unnecessary. Paul asks that nothing be done from vainglory, and that each one esteem others. Fellowship is not a loss of dignity. It is one of the ways God grows love. Coming near, and letting someone else come near, is an act of humility.
Philippians 2:3 (KJV). "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves."
Lord, I step down from this distance. Give me humility to need people, and gentleness to let them need me.